The Dressing Drink

A memoir of glamour, secrets, and survival.

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The Dressing Drink is lush, intimate, and unsettling — a dazzling portrait of glamour and loneliness, control and longing. Flagg’s writing sparkles with wit and sorrow, offering a haunting, theatrical memoir that lingers like the ritual at its heart.

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A deeply personal memoir, The Dressing Drink traces a life shaped by old Hollywood glamour, hidden family histories, and long-buried truths.

Spanning decades—from elite society to backstage dressing rooms—Thomas King Flagg uncovers a story of identity, survival, and the forces that shaped his path.

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A life shaped by glamour, secrecy, and long-buried truths.

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About the Book

Born into a world of privilege and performance, Thomas King Flagg grew up surrounded by glamour, secrecy, and contradiction.

From the legacy of old Hollywood to the realities behind it, The Dressing Drink explores themes of identity, power, loss, and resilience—uncovering a deeply personal story shaped across decades.

Both intimate and expansive, the memoir reveals the truth behind a life lived between spotlight and shadow.

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Discover Thomas King Flagg’s work across performance, education, and global dance initiatives.